Mid Week Reflection: The Company You Keep

Growing up I was always told to watch the company I keep. It was a lesson in understanding that people will judge you based on the type of people you choose to hang around. If you hang around a bunch of troublemakers, people will think that you are a troublemaker even if you are not one.  It is also possible that your behavior can begin to conform to the groups’ behavior. We can all probably think of examples where people may have acted outside of their normal character when they were around certain group of people. Well, this notion remains the same as we enter adulthood and begin to have hopes and dreams. The company we keep can either become our cheerleaders and let us know the sky is the limit or they can be the biggest naysayers, making us second guess our ability to successfully pursue any dream we may have had.  It is easy to sit here and say that you should just ignore those people and continue pursuing your dreams.  But the reality is that the company you keep plays a major role in your ability to achieve your goals – especially if these are people close to you who you often confide in.  The company you keep should be positive, uplifting, resilient, supportive, and able to cheer you on when you begin to doubt yourself.  Take inventory of the people that you surround yourself with.  Do you feel that they speak positivity into your life or are they always telling you what you cannot do or what you cannot achieve?  I challenge you today to look around and see who continually uplifts you and who always tries to limit you. Pay attention to those who pour positivity into you and pull those people closer. The company you keep has the power to pull you into doubt what you can achieve or catapult you into your wildest dreams. Choose wisely.

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2 thoughts on “Mid Week Reflection: The Company You Keep

  1. Reading this, I can think back to all the times I had the wrong company in my midst. The sad part is that I fought hard to keep them there because it’s what I thought I needed. Living and learning showed me how to really be there for those and recognizing the ones who truly were in my corner. This post was really good and it allowed me to reflect on how I should respond to the naysayers. The goal is to let them know that being in my corner requires them to support me, even if they don’t understand and if they can’t do that, they are free to walk away.

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    1. Yes, I had to learn not to even let but the negative vibe of the naysayers even come close to me. We can sometimes take on their doubt as our own if we are not careful. Glad you enjoyed!

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